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Gen.
28:1 "And Isaac called Jacob, and blessed him, and
charged him, and said unto him, Thou shalt not take
a wife of the daughters of Canaan. 2 Arise, go to
Padanaram, to the house of Bethuel thy mother's
father; and take thee a wife from thence of the
daughters of Laban thy mother's brother. 3 And God
Almighty bless thee, and make thee fruitful, and
multiply thee, that thou mayest be a multitude of
people; 4 And give thee the blessing of Abraham, to
thee, and to thy seed with thee; that thou mayest
inherit the land wherein thou art a stranger, which
God gave unto Abraham. 5 And Isaac sent away Jacob:
and he went to Padanaram unto Laban, son of Bethuel
the Syrian, the brother of Rebekah, Jacob's and
Esau's mother."
After that Isaac had caused great harm to his family
by seeking to bless Esau without either seeking
guidance of the LORD or considering what the LORD
had told Rebekah concerning the two sons, Isaac
learned his lesson and called Jacob and blessed him
with the blessing that he should have blessed him
with without the deceitful antics of Rebekah and
Jacob.
Previously, Abraham had instructed his most trusted
servant to go to Pandanaram and seek a wife for
Isaac of the house of his kindred. The LORD led the
servant to Rebekah, the daughter of Bethuel and the
sister of Laban. Abraham was very specific that the
servant was not to bring a wife of the daughters of
the Canaanites. Of course, Rebekah became the wife
of Isaac. Now following this example, Isaac
instructs Jacob to go to the same place and seek a
wife among the daughters of Laban. One of the
reasons that the Canaanites would not be a suitable
wife for either Isaac or Jacob was that God was
going to destroy the nations that occupied the land
of Canaan. If either Isaac or Jacob had married a
Canaanite, then it would have been hard for them and
their descendents to destroy the nations that
occupied the land of Canaan. Also, the Canaanites
with their wicked ways and idolatrous practices
would have turned the hearts of Isaac, Jacob, and
their descendents from following the Lord.
Moreover, we have the best example of finding a
spouse shown to us by example in the scriptures.
Abraham had sought a wife for Isaac and besought the
Lord in helping him to do so. Isaac instructed
Isaac of where to find a spouse and besought the
Lord of Jacob's behalf. This method is still the
best method today for finding the right spouse for
God's children.
"And God Almighty bless thee, and make thee
fruitful, and multiply thee, that thou mayest be a
multitude of people; 4 And give thee the blessing of
Abraham, to thee, and to thy seed with thee; that
thou mayest inherit the land wherein thou art a
stranger, which God gave unto Abraham." God's
blessing and promise had previously been passed to
Isaac. Moreover, Isaac had already learned from the
Lord that Jacob was chosen of God to be the
recipient of God's covenant promise and not Esau.
Thus, Isaac officially passed the torch to Jacob.
Now the LORD himself would appear to Jacob and
confirm that he would inherit the promises that were
previously made to Abraham and Isaac. We also note
in this passage, that Abraham and Isaac inherited
the land by promise as they did not have possession
of the land. Possession of the land would not come
for several generations. Yet, the land was theirs
by covenant promise. Now the land would be Jacob's
and his offspring by covenant promise.
"And Isaac sent away Jacob: and he went to Padanaram
unto Laban, son of Bethuel the Syrian, the brother
of Rebekah, Jacob's and Esau's mother." Now, both
Isaac and Jacob are acting in obedience to the
covenant promise that God had made to Abraham and
Isaac. Isaac was being obedient in sending Jacob
away to find a bride among the daughters of Laban
and Jacob was acting in obedience in going to
Padanaram to find a bride among the daughters of
Laban.
As a side note, Jacob was about 70 years of age when
he went to Padanaram.
Gen. 28:6-9 Esau's Wives
Gen. 28:6 "When Esau saw that Isaac had blessed
Jacob, and sent him away to Padanaram, to take him a
wife from thence; and that as he blessed him he gave
him a charge, saying, Thou shalt not take a wife of
the daughters of Canaan; 7 And that Jacob obeyed his
father and his mother, and was gone to Padanaram; 8
And Esau seeing that the daughters of Canaan pleased
not Isaac his father; 9 Then went Esau unto Ishmael,
and took unto the wives which he had Mahalath the
daughter of Ishmael Abraham's son, the sister of
Nebajoth, to be his wife."
Previously Esau had taken wives of the daughters of
Canaan. These were a distress to both Isaac and
Rebekah. Esau, an alien from the covenants of
promise, always acted in a selfish manner. Whatever
he did, he sought to do for his own selfish
reasons. This is the nature of fallen man. It is
the nature of an individual who has not been born of
the Spirit of God. Esau now sought the favor of his
father for gain. He did not need another wife, yet
he saw that his previous wives did not please his
father, so he sought to please his father by taking
a wife of the daughters of Ishmael. Isaac had not
told or besought Esau to do this, yet selfishly Esau
thought that by taking Mahalath to be his wife that
Isaac would be pleased. Of course, Esau was not
seeking to please God by his actions. |